Stop worrying about whether or not you were able to make it out of bed today. Stop worrying about what others will think of you because of your illness. You need to take a rain check? Do so! You need to stay in bed and rest? Do it! Whatever the impossible task, remember that you have 365 days and 365 changes to get it right. So make the best of it. Take Lupus one day at a time… after all, you have 365 of them.